Are Women Preventing Each Other From Becoming Nude and Practicing Self-Love?

Guest Site by: Patricia Anderson-Peters

Getting Nude and Practicing Self Love:

I am not a naturist. We'll start there . Not for lack of want to be really, I'd LOVE to be so free and uninhibited, but I've not arrived there yet. Depressed part isI'm 45 years old. I'm not young either.

So as http://retirementplanadvisorygroup.org/__media__/js/netsoltrademark.php?d=beachspy.site/contents/31609976/3.htmlread er you might be wondering why I am writing an article for the Nudist Portal website. It is really due to the state that I 'm.

An article written by Felicity Jones titled Why Women Should See Other Women's Nude Bodies reminded me of the very first time that I got naked around other women.

http://www.ad-rx.com/__media__/js/netsoltrademark.php?d=beachsex.site/contents/65523044/2.html was a spiritual initiation weekend in Florida and I 'd worked myself into a dither for days knowing that I was going to be nakedaround other people. Every anxiety I had carried around for over thirty years was taunting me and my two-kid-later, gravitation challenged breasts only needed to forget all about it.

When the time arrived and the other women stripped from their clothing, I quite slowly joined them. I was so convinced that each eye in the area was studying my my naked body, my stretch marks, my fat rollsand my not pink and perkies.

In the long run, I couldn't have been more incorrect. We were all just a group of very spiritual girls who had overcome huge challenges to get where we were. We body painted one another with colours and symbols that represented our journeys.

If anyone was eyeballing my areolas, wellthey were so covert about it that I simply never knew it.

Becoming Nude From the Heart - Out by Patricia Anderson

Where did this fear of becoming nude start?

It appears to me that it can't be natural to be frightened of your lovers seeing you nude. Lots of women will say that their body problems come from the media and in the irrational desires that guys have for the perfect female form. But looking back, I don't believe that is an altogether accurate assessment.

Self-image problems and body hate didn't start with how the guys around me saw meit actually started with how the women in my life saw me. It began with the powder room politics of puberty. Girls can be the most catty creatures on earth in their amateur years. We judged one another in the way our hair was combed, to the heels we wore.

Let's be honest, women. It was not the guys that did this to us. We did this to each other. Sadder however, we did it all to try to obtain the acceptance of one another, not the sexual taste of the males around us. Men do not purchase the magazines they date the women who do.

Maybe if http://simmonsrecords.biz/__media__/js/netsoltrademark.php?d=beachspy.site/contents/39739856/1.html saw one another naked more generally, this farce that's been pawned and passed from generation to generation would be put down like the rabid dog that it is. No http://fooddistribution.com/__media__/js/netsoltrademark.php?d=beachsex.site/albums/i-have-more-pics-of-972.html are likewise even on ONE body, even less so on more than one body!

There are perky breasts, saggy breasts, pink and brown nipples, large and little ones too. There are slim thighs, fat thighs, long and short legs. click and differences list is long and distinguished, but it is still just a list of parts. A girl is more in relation to the sum of her parts. She is heart, she is soul, she is experience, she is fluidity and she is dFKKmic.

If we could learn to value one another more than judging one another, the power that we've together is enough to break the negativity that has defined us for much too much time. We have to return to that Red Tent, bodypainting Soul-Woman respect of who we are when we stand together, in place of tearing each other apart simply because we can.

More to the point, perhaps it is time to take accountability for the fact that it is not the men in our world and it's not the media which is driving this poor assessment system that has cultivated a generation of eating disordered, emotionally violent women. We did this. We did this to our sisters and we did this to ourselves. Perhaps we need to get nude women from your heartsout.

Becoming Nude From the Heart was released by - Young Naturists and Naturists America

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